Women and Selfishness

There’s a lot of talk about “selfishness” in Mormonism being the cause of the end of marriages and families, and the ruination of souls. I spent most of my life believing that my goal was to be “unselfish” like Christ was. I believed in the importance of annihilating my own selfishness as the end-goal of my perfecting myself toward godhood. I imagined that heaven would be a place of pure service, with no chocolate, Netflix, or foot rubs because I would be evolved…