Why would I give advice about something that I’ve done so badly? Because I think I may have made every mistake in the book and if I haven’t made them, I’ve watched other people close to me make them. The best teacher is a bad student, isn’t that what they say? And also, because I need to write about this and I need to help other people who are going through the same thing. I need to make my pain mean something and that means feeling like I…